I saw this on FB last week and haven’t been able to let go of it. Dick Gregory reportedly has said, “If I’m a woman and I’m walking down the street naked, you still don’t have the right to rape me.” Alrighty then. Duly noted, Mr. Gregory.
And if I have a house full of expensive electronic equipment and leave town for a week with the front door standing wide open, you still don’t have the right to rob me. And if I take $40,000 out of the ATM, spread it on my dashboard and leave the car in the mall parking lot with the windows open, you don’t have the right to take it. My stupidity does not justify your evil. However, my stupidity may still be worthy of mention and rebuke.
I understand Mr. Gregory’s point. To blame a woman for her rape because she dressed or behaved seductively is inexcusable. The rapist is to blame for the rape – and he should come under the full penalty of the law regardless of how the woman was looking or behaving. And if the legal system is allowing rapists to get away with their crime because of the behavior of their victims, this should be changed. No reasonable human being would argue this.
But is it not worth noting that a woman who chooses to dress and behave seductively in an environment where there are likely to be bad men who will have no qualms about taking that bait she’s offering – laid out on the dashboard with the windows open – well, she’s being stupid! When did the right to “express your sexuality” become the freedom to flaunt your goods to the world and think that you should never have to worry about bad guys trying to take them without permission? Nobody else has that “freedom”. We all know there are bad guys out there and we lock up and protect our goods from them. We drive defensively – we lock our houses – we pocket our billfolds – and we cover up our boobs.
There’s a line here between freedom and responsibility, and I’m seeing too many feminists dance a little too close to it.